**-- Alot of info ahead, if you are squirmish, stop reading. You have been warned --**
What happened was, on 30 Apr, I decided to continue my efforts of potty training. I left her diaperless for 6 hours that day. In that duration, she prob rushed to the loo about 8 times but had 1 accident which I patiently wiped away. During tea time that day as she & I were sitting on the sofa having "sa-ke-mah" (沙琪瑪 or Sachima), she suddenly rushed off shouting "I need to go to the toilet!!" (yes, she really did say that in a very "urgent manner"). After about what seemed like a long time, I decided to check on her. I asked if she has finished? She said no. I would've left her at that except I smelt something. I did a second glance in the toilet bowl and confirmed she did a #2. Wow. REAL RESULTS! I was so happy that if I felt like doing a little dance.
I praised her immensely & gave her TWO stickers as reward (I made a half-hearted Reward Chart which we paste behind the toilet door). She was very proud that I was so proud.
The next day, I continued to let her go diaperless & she had one or two accidents during the day. I continue to notice she is very aware when she needs to go to the toilet. These few days, I put her on diaper because I am just too tired to clean up the mess but on one day, her diaper was totally DRY. Of course, some days are drier than others. Today she had 2 wet diapers which I constantly remind & nag her about. I also figured she was too preoccupied with her tv shows - I am going to cut down these sessions, MISSY!
("Don't bug me, I'm watching my fav TV show!")
Anyway, I'm just thinking about this subject of potty training : To each its own method but I'm grateful Shean Wenn's experience has been really pleasant. I'm glad I did not stress both of us up by following conventional methods which can be really tiring & time consuming. I'm glad she decided in her own terms that she is ready. I'm proud of you, little darling. You constantly amaze me with your understanding of how things should work.
5 comments:
Congratulations! You just left her half naked and she got the message. Don't even need you to sing song to her! Guess Shanghai Beach is outdated lar! Hehe!
you learn as you go along isnt it?
Well done! Bravo!
LION GIRL : Well, I thk at this age, she prob has somewhat taken in some learning of how to control it.
zewt : well said!
Siew : Thanks! Although she sometimes regresses/gets lazy. I don't enforce it very strictly so can't blame her for slacking.
congratulations!!! I totally agree that we shouldnt stress the kids and us on potty training. Potty training Aidan was very stress-free too. He has been off the diaper during the day since nov but we let him wear a diaper at nights when he sleeps and also when we go out. This evening, he said NO to diapers before we went out to the mall. He said "Aidan don't want she-she underwear"
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